Monday, February 13, 2012
Marriage...
Married or not you should read this...
“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.
Well, after reading this...I seriously shed some tears. It is kinda sad of how we don't appreciate our better half n take care of them. Thats why I wann share this. Mybe in the near future or what not...u guys might do the same thing. Appreciate ure wife. U chose her for a reason. Dun simply throw awat marriage juz like dat.
Thnks for reading...
Took from : http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10150586773469752&set=a.70214384751.70643.753834751&type=3
-Neo-
Skadar nk bkongsi kpd sumer.... =)
Haloo n Assalamualaikum....
Skali lagi bertemu kte pada tgh mlm yg sunyi.... (kot...aku xtau la...kat tmpt aku sunyi mase aku wat post nie...haha)
Hari ni...aku nk share lagi ssuatu dgn korang. Ye...aku mmg suke share. Aku nie...bkn nye hbat mane nk buat post sndri. Tp ble aku share...aku ttap akn share. Ye la...bkn nk kate ape...knowledge is something to be shared not kept. ^O^
Orite...skang nie...mari la kte lihat topik yg aku nk share hari nie ek...
Psal kawen...kawen wktu rmaja....rmaja yg msih blaja...
Haa~ korang kn dok pk kawen awl nie mcm xelok je n sgale bgai...mak ayh korang pon mgkn rase sbegitu. Tp dorg ade sbb nye. Tkot korang x mmpu nk jge psgn korang. N then tkot ggu study la ape la...fokus la...itu la...ini la...bla bla bla...bebel pnjg2 smpai 7,8 jam psal kawen + kapel itu haram + ssh nye nk keje klu xde pndidikan + nk crik duet ssh = saket tlinge korang. So, meh la...bace la post nie. Post nie utk sumer golongan umur.
TETAPI!! HARAP KORANG JANGAN SALAH FAHAM APE YANG CUBA DISAMPAIKAN KEPADA KORANG SEMUA.
Kengkadang ade je sgelintir dr umat mnusia nie...yg suke sngt slh phm bnde2 cmnie. N then dok ckp...umur 5 taon pon da blh kawen. Mrepek mraban. Tlg la jgn slh phm k...bace n dalami la...mksd yg tersurat n tersirat n yg mne yg ptt sumer la ye.
Baekla...aku x nk bebel pnjg2...kang korang x terbace lak ape yg aku sbenar2nye nk smpai kn kat korang. Tp korang msti nk bace punye kn. Bnde nie bkaitan ngn kawen2 nie sumer. Kapel2 zman skang kn da maju. Baru kapel...tp name anak, pelamin nk mcm mne, cncin nk mcm mne, tema kaler ape, umah kat mane...n laen2 lagi la. Aku tau...sbb aku pon dlu mcm tu jugak. Xyah la nk nafikn sngt. Aku tau rmai je yg mcm tu kn...hehehe....
OKAY! Baca la dgn hati yg tbuke... slmat mmbace n slamat beramal... ^_^
SOAL HATI REMAJA - PATUTKAH BERKAHWIN AWAL
Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda: Tiga perkara yang jangan dilambat-lambatkan, iaitu solat apabila telah masuk waktunya, jenazah apabila telah siap (urusan mandi dan kafan) dan anak gadis setelah ditemui (pasangan) yang sesuai untuknya. (H.R. Tirmidzi)
Kahwin awal bukan satu masalah. Mari lihat persoalan-persoalan yang selalu menerjah di kepala anak-anak muda yang fitrahnya terhalang atas sebab-sebab tertentu.
1. Kahwin waktu masih belajar, adakah tidak mengganggu pelajaran?
Siapa cakap kahwin waktu sedang belajar mengganggu? Salah tanggapan tu. Sepatutnya, kahwin awal lebih memberi kita semangat yang membara. Yelah, sudah ada pasangan yang halal dan akan sentiasa menyokong kita, mesti la lagi bersemangat mau belajar kan? Lagi satu, orang yang sudah kahwin ni akan berasa lebih bertanggungjawab dari sebelum kahwin. Sebab mereka tahu bahawa mereka punya pasangan untuk dijaga, jadi mereka pun akan berusaha untuk buat yang terbaik bagi pasangan mereka. Apa-apa pun, tengok ibu bapa kita saja sebagai contoh. Sudah kahwin, tapi adakah mengganggu kerja mereka? Tidak kan?
2. Saya masih belajar, macam mana mahu bagi nafkah pada isteri kalau belum ada kerja?
Saya tahu ramai antara kita yang masih belajar, dan ramai yang meminjam dapat elaun biasiswa. Saya beranggapan pasangan yang ingin dikahwini jugak masih study Jadi ia bermakna dua-dua masih dapat hidup dengan wang yang asas tu. Jadi, sementara masih belum ada kerja, suami berilah nafkah yang termampu kepada isteri. Mungkin $25 atau $50 sebulan? Bergantung kepada berapa banyak isteri gunakan untuk makan. Lagipun, isteri jugak ada wang, jadi tak perlu rasa ada masalah di situ. Yang penting dua-dua masih dapat hidup. Lain la kalau isteri demand kereta, rumah, rantai emas, baju berlambak-lambak, dan macam-macam lagi. Jadi, sepatutnya tiada masalah dalam bab nafkah. Cuba kita tengok orang Arab zaman Nabi dulu. Adakah kebanyakan daripada mereka orang berharta? Tidak. Mereka cuma mampu memberi isteri makan makanan setakat yang mereka mampu beri. Itu pun sudah mencukupi untuk dijadikan nafkah. Nabi tak larang pun orang miskin berkahwin. Jangan jadikan kekurangan wang sebagai penghalang perkahwinan. Itu namanya menyalahkan takdir Allah. Berdosa.
Firman Allah: Dan kahwinkanlah orang-orang bujang (lelaki dan perempuan) dari kalangan kamu, dan orang-orang yang soleh dari hamba-hamba kamu, lelaki dan perempuan. Jika mereka miskin, Allah akan memberikan kekayaan kepada mereka dari limpah kurniaNya kerana Allah Maha Luas (rahmatNya dan limpah kurniaNya), lagi Maha Mengetahui. (An-Nur:32)
3. Macam mana mahu cari modal untuk majlis perkahwinan?
Apa perkara asas dalam kahwin? Ya, akad nikah dan walimatul urus. Merisik dan bertunang tu bukan wajib pun. Jadi, potong kos seperti bagi hantaran waktu merisik dan bertunang, sudah jimat wang. Waktu akad nikah pun, jemputlah keluarga terdekat dengan kawan-kawan saja yang dapat datang. Berdosa bila tidak menghadiri jemputan walimatul urus. Jadi, jimat sikit kos kenduri. Buang wang saja sewa pelamin, sewa baju pengantin, sewa jurukamera dengan mak andam semua tu kerana ia termasuk dalam hal-hal yang sia-sia. Mas kahwin pun tidak perlu tinggi-tinggi kerana sebaik-baik magar adalah yang paling rendah. Mudah saja majlis perkahwinan dalam agama Islam. Tidak sampai puluh ribu pun.
Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w: Tiga golongan yang akan selalu diberi pertolongan oleh Allah ialah seorang mujahid yang selalu memperjuangkan agama Allah s.w.t, seorang penulis yang selalu memberi penawar dan seorang yang menikah demi menjaga kehormatan dirinya. (H.R. Thabrani)
4. Tidak terlalu awalkah untuk saya berkahwin?
Kalau rasa dengan kahwin boleh buat semangat untuk belajar semakin meningkat, kahwin la. Kalau rasa kahwin boleh buat diri semakin bersemangat dalam agama, kahwin la. Kalau rasa kahwin boleh elak daripada fitnah dan maksiat, kahwin la. Itu maksudnya, kahwin memang perlu di usia muda. Benda yang baik, jangan dilambatkan. Takut kelak bertukar menjadi benda yang tidak baik. Cuba bayangkan anda ada pasangan yang disukai. Kan bagus kita cepatkan benda yang baik dengan berkahwin terus. Tapi kalau kita melambatkan perkahwinan yang bagus itu, mungkin kita akan terjerumus ke lembaah maksiat. Kenapa kita boleh beralasan untuk melakukan perkara yang halal, tetapi tidak langsung mengemukakan alasan untuk melakukan perkara yang haram? Tanya diri, jagalah iman.
Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w: Apabila datang kepadamu seorang laki-laki untuk meminang, yang engkau redha terhadap agama dan akhlaknya, maka nikahkanlah dia. Bila tidak engkau lakukan maka akan terjadi fitnah di muka bumi dan akan timbul kerosakan yang merata di muka bumi. (H.R. Tirmidzi dan Ahmad)
5. Bersediakah saya untuk kahwin awal?
Ini soalan paling bagus ditanya kepada diri sendiri. Tanya dulu soalan asas ni. Sudahkah saya solat penuh 5 kali sehari semalam? Bertanggungjawab sudahkah saya? Adakah saya panas baran atau penyabar? Adakah saya seorang yang bercakap menggunakan akal atau bertindak menggunakan akal di lutut? Pendek kata, ada banyak soalan spesifik yang boleh ditanya kepada diri sendiri. Walau apa pun jawapan dia, ini nasihat saya. Sentiasalah perbaiki diri dan mantapkan diri. Orang yang sudah berkahwin dan sedang belajar solat lebih baik berbanding orang yang sudah kahwin dan pandai solat tapi tidak amalkannya lepas kahwin. Orang yang bersedia mengubah dirinya adalah yang paling bersedia sebenarnya.
6. Macam mana dengan restu ibu bapa?
Ya, ini la benda paling susah bila mahu kahwin awal. Faktor penghalang paling utama. Kalau kita dapat menjelaskan dengan baik kepada ibu bapa dan mereka faham, insyaAllah tiada masalah untuk berkahwin awal. Tapi kalau ibu bapa kita susah mahu terima sebab fikiran mereka masih terikat dengan fikiran tipikal masyarakat Melayu sekarang ni yang lebih terpengaruh kepada adat dan cerekarama di tv semata-mata, serta pemikiran risau akan tak cukup wang nak sara anak dara orang, sudah tentu mereka tidak akan terima setiap hujah yang diberikan seperti di atas. Apa-apa pun, saya doakan yang terbaik untuk mereka yang mahu kahwin awal supaya cepat bertemu jodoh. Ingat, bila seseorang itu berkahwin kerana ingin mengikut sunnah Rasulullah, maka terbukalah segala pintu rezeki untuknya. Lihat, betapa banyaknya kelebihan kahwin awal. Fikiran kita yang sempit saja membuatkan kahwin ni nampak terlalu susah sangat.
Umar bin al-Khattab r.a telah berkata: Kahwinlah anak-anak kamu apabila sampai baligh, janganlah kamu menanggung dosa-dosa mereka. (Disebut oleh Ibnu Jauzi dalam Ahkam An-Nisa)
Nasihat saya untuk golongan-golongan yang sedang hangat bercinta tu, sebaiknya kahwinlah awal. Lebih banyak kelebihan kahwin awal berbanding kahwin lambat. Tapi semua itu pilihan masing-masing juga. Mudah-mudahan setiap pilihan yang kita buat adalah yang terbaik dan dirahmati Allah. InsyaAllah.
Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda: Siapa yang benci dengan cara hidup (sunnah) ku maka dia tidak termasuk golonganku. (H.R. Bukhari dan Muslim)
Da bace da??? Klu korang da bace smpai abes...then Alhamdulillah. Bnyk pahala korang dpt sbb mncrik ilmu. Xksh la kn kte dpt ilmu psal kawen. Lagipun kawen nie kn pkare yg suci. So, ape mslh nye bace psal bab2 kawen nie. Xde mslh nye pon. Bak kate ape yg terkate td...fikiran kte yg sempit nie je yg nyusah kn. Ok la. Xde ape lagi yg aku nk ckp. Aku tamat kn kat sini la ye... =)
Sayangilah psgan anda sbaik2 maka ia akn mndtgkn lbih bnyk kbaikan drpd kburukan.
Daa~ Assalamualaikum..
-Neo-
Sunday, February 12, 2012
Lets see what happens... O.o
Hey guys...wassap...n Assalamualaikum...of course.. I am a muslim...hehe... ^_^
Here's simply a post on some links of some ppl....doing....well....some crazy stuff if I may say so myself.
I am kinda lazy to post the video here....so, I'm juz gonna go ahead and post the link here....
Wether u guys open it or not....well....its mostly up to u...
Have fun watching n....take care of ure devices. ^_^
iPhone 4S vs Samsung GS2 Drop Test : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=elKxgsrJFhw
iPad 2, Motorola Xoom, Samsung Galaxy: Drop Test Comparison : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zW_swJiebIA&feature=relmfu
Iphone vs Htc - Water damage test!! Succesful repair for both of them after : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_yU9IO9mbXE&feature=related
(Although, I do wanna say something about this vid. Its not accurate coz, he is using an old model of HTC and an iPhone which was produced later than that HTC model. Plus, another fact. He poured the water straight onto the HTC but not on the iPhone. So, indirectly the water probably entered the HTC first and faster than the iPhone. Next, the part where he took out the iPhone and the HTC, well...the period of time when he took out the iPhone was longer. May not affect much but I do think he shud hve not done that to both phones. Another point dat I wud like to point out is that...even with the water poured onto the HTC at first...but later at the end of the vid..u can see dat the iPhone dies seconds after the HTC died. Which still makes the HTC a more powerful devices being withstand in this situation.)
iPad 2 Smart Cover Drop Test : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vrJ83dEec4&feature=relmfu
(Another comment here....do get a smart cover for ure iPad...lol...)
Wanna see more? Well, search for ureself and see what some ppl do to these kind off devices...huhuhu...
See ya...! XD
-Neo-
Here's simply a post on some links of some ppl....doing....well....some crazy stuff if I may say so myself.
I am kinda lazy to post the video here....so, I'm juz gonna go ahead and post the link here....
Wether u guys open it or not....well....its mostly up to u...
Have fun watching n....take care of ure devices. ^_^
iPhone 4S vs Samsung GS2 Drop Test : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=elKxgsrJFhw
iPad 2, Motorola Xoom, Samsung Galaxy: Drop Test Comparison : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zW_swJiebIA&feature=relmfu
Iphone vs Htc - Water damage test!! Succesful repair for both of them after : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_yU9IO9mbXE&feature=related
(Although, I do wanna say something about this vid. Its not accurate coz, he is using an old model of HTC and an iPhone which was produced later than that HTC model. Plus, another fact. He poured the water straight onto the HTC but not on the iPhone. So, indirectly the water probably entered the HTC first and faster than the iPhone. Next, the part where he took out the iPhone and the HTC, well...the period of time when he took out the iPhone was longer. May not affect much but I do think he shud hve not done that to both phones. Another point dat I wud like to point out is that...even with the water poured onto the HTC at first...but later at the end of the vid..u can see dat the iPhone dies seconds after the HTC died. Which still makes the HTC a more powerful devices being withstand in this situation.)
iPad 2 Smart Cover Drop Test : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_vrJ83dEec4&feature=relmfu
(Another comment here....do get a smart cover for ure iPad...lol...)
Wanna see more? Well, search for ureself and see what some ppl do to these kind off devices...huhuhu...
See ya...! XD
-Neo-
Saturday, February 11, 2012
Nk share dgn korang...
Ok...ni ade story yg aku nk share especially utk kaum hawa yg kami kaum adam sgt mnyayangi.
Hrap korang bace k...aku pon x smpurna n bnyk slh silap yg aku msih buat...tp dlm hati aku...ade niat utk perbaiki dri aku juga.
Aku pon prlu kn mase. Mgkn xbnyk...tp msih prlukan mase utk mngubah diri aku sket2. Korang pon, jgn pkse dri utk brubah. Tp self motivate dri korang n amek la lgkah demi lgkah. Bak kate org....we have to strat somewhere rite... ^_^
So, aku x nk bebel pnjg2 sgt...korang bace k...have fun!
KU NAK SANGAT TUTUP AURAT DENGAN SEMPURNA.. TAPI.....
Kawan A : Pernah tak kau terfikir satu perkara?
Kawan B : Mende??
Kawan A : Hmm.. aku ni dah la tak sempurna tutup aurat..
Kawan B : Ko jangan cakap camtu. Aku pun..
Kawan A : Aku kadang-kadang pakai baju tangan pendek. Tudung pakai camtu-camtu je. Tak pakai anak tudung.. Tak pakai stokin. Ak risau la..
Kawan B : Kiranya kau nak cakap yang kau dah tak selesa la erk bila pakai camtu??
Kawan A : Hmm.. Aku tingin nak berubah sebenarnya.. Tapi.. aku risau orang tak leh nak tima perubahan aku nanti. Ko tau kan geng kita tu camne.. Fashionable..
Kawan B : Bagi aku, kalo ko betol-betol nak berubah go ahead. Aku faham apa yang kau cakap tu. Memang dah tanggungjawab kita kan tutp aurat. Tapi, kau dulu la berubah. Aku tak dapat hidayah lagi. Tak sampai seru orang cakap.
Kawan A : Aku bukan nak bagi ceramah dekat ko.. Tapi, aku pernah tepikir camni tau. Konon-kononkan kita pegi jalan-jalan kat mall mane-mane la kan, dalam keadaan kita tak tutup aurat. Nak dijadikan cita, sampai sudah ajal kita time tu. Kita maybe accident or mati dengan tiba-tiba. Aku takut aku tak sempat nak mengucap and mati dalam keadaan macam ni, dalam keadaan tak tutup aurat. Sebab aritu aku ada baca kat fb, ustaz mane tah cakap, "perempuan-perempuan yang berpakaian tetapi telanjang, yang cenderung kepada perbuatan maksiat dan mencenderungkan orang lain kepada perbuatan maksiat , rambutnya sebesar punuk unta. Mereka ini tidak akan boleh masuk syurga, serta tidak dapat akan mencium bau syurga, padahal bau syurga itu tercium sejauh perjalanan demikian dan demikian ."
(Riwayat Muslim)
Kawan B : Amboi ko, sekali ngan hadis kau kasik erk.
Kawan A : Aku cuma nak bagi evidence je. Kau jangan salah faham pulak. Hmm.. Kalo nak tunggu hidayah, memamg takkan datang free-free. Kita kena carik hidayah tu. Aku rasa kita kena berubah sekarang.
Kawan B : Diam..
Kawan A : Aku takut hidayah atau pun apa yang aku dan kau rasa sekarang ni, cuma datang sekali saja. Rugilah kita kalo tak sambut seruan Allah ni. ="(
Kawan B : Aku pun rasa camtu gak. Tapi, aku tak tau nak start camne.
Kawan A : Apa kata kita start dengan stop pakai baju tangan pendek, seluar ketat.. Then, kita cuba pakai tudung yang tak jarang and menutup dada. Pastu kita biasakan diri dengan pakai stokin pulak. Amacam??
Kawan B : Okey jugak cadangan kau tu.. Aku setuju. InsyaAllah. Mudah-mudahan kita mampu berubah menjadi yang lebih elok. Amin.
Kawan A : (Tersenyum) InsyaAllah. Kalo kita tolong agama Allah, Allah akan tolong kita.. Amin. Permudahkanlah kami Ya Allah.. Jangan sampai kami tak berubah kerana mencari redha manusia.
P/s : Kepada yang ada terdetik di hati untuk lebih menjaga diri dan menutup aurat selengkapnya, lakukanlah perubahan tersebut. Ingat. bukan redha manusia yang kita cari. Bukan manusia tu yang akan bagi kita masuk syurga atau neraka.
Tabahkan hati. Mohon lah pada Ilahi. InsyaAllah, Allah Maha Mengetahui. Sapa yang betol-betol berkeinginan, InsyaAllah Allah akan tolong. Percayalah.. moga Allah redha.
"perempuan yang memelihara auratnya memang awesomeee !"
sy tegur anda kerna saya sayang anda, anda saudara saya. saya mahu kita semua masuk ke syurgaNya yang mengalir di bawahnya sungai - sungai yang mendamaikan jiwa. ^^
-Neo-
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P/s :-
Post nie bkn dr aku...aku skadar copy paste.
Credits to the original (sape yg create nie).
Credits gak kpd yg bg aku share...
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=254583311282810&set=a.136511286423347.34529.136480249759784&type=3
(original copied from link)
Hrap korang bace k...aku pon x smpurna n bnyk slh silap yg aku msih buat...tp dlm hati aku...ade niat utk perbaiki dri aku juga.
Aku pon prlu kn mase. Mgkn xbnyk...tp msih prlukan mase utk mngubah diri aku sket2. Korang pon, jgn pkse dri utk brubah. Tp self motivate dri korang n amek la lgkah demi lgkah. Bak kate org....we have to strat somewhere rite... ^_^
So, aku x nk bebel pnjg2 sgt...korang bace k...have fun!
KU NAK SANGAT TUTUP AURAT DENGAN SEMPURNA.. TAPI.....
Kawan A : Pernah tak kau terfikir satu perkara?
Kawan B : Mende??
Kawan A : Hmm.. aku ni dah la tak sempurna tutup aurat..
Kawan B : Ko jangan cakap camtu. Aku pun..
Kawan A : Aku kadang-kadang pakai baju tangan pendek. Tudung pakai camtu-camtu je. Tak pakai anak tudung.. Tak pakai stokin. Ak risau la..
Kawan B : Kiranya kau nak cakap yang kau dah tak selesa la erk bila pakai camtu??
Kawan A : Hmm.. Aku tingin nak berubah sebenarnya.. Tapi.. aku risau orang tak leh nak tima perubahan aku nanti. Ko tau kan geng kita tu camne.. Fashionable..
Kawan B : Bagi aku, kalo ko betol-betol nak berubah go ahead. Aku faham apa yang kau cakap tu. Memang dah tanggungjawab kita kan tutp aurat. Tapi, kau dulu la berubah. Aku tak dapat hidayah lagi. Tak sampai seru orang cakap.
Kawan A : Aku bukan nak bagi ceramah dekat ko.. Tapi, aku pernah tepikir camni tau. Konon-kononkan kita pegi jalan-jalan kat mall mane-mane la kan, dalam keadaan kita tak tutup aurat. Nak dijadikan cita, sampai sudah ajal kita time tu. Kita maybe accident or mati dengan tiba-tiba. Aku takut aku tak sempat nak mengucap and mati dalam keadaan macam ni, dalam keadaan tak tutup aurat. Sebab aritu aku ada baca kat fb, ustaz mane tah cakap, "perempuan-perempuan yang berpakaian tetapi telanjang, yang cenderung kepada perbuatan maksiat dan mencenderungkan orang lain kepada perbuatan maksiat , rambutnya sebesar punuk unta. Mereka ini tidak akan boleh masuk syurga, serta tidak dapat akan mencium bau syurga, padahal bau syurga itu tercium sejauh perjalanan demikian dan demikian ."
(Riwayat Muslim)
Kawan B : Amboi ko, sekali ngan hadis kau kasik erk.
Kawan A : Aku cuma nak bagi evidence je. Kau jangan salah faham pulak. Hmm.. Kalo nak tunggu hidayah, memamg takkan datang free-free. Kita kena carik hidayah tu. Aku rasa kita kena berubah sekarang.
Kawan B : Diam..
Kawan A : Aku takut hidayah atau pun apa yang aku dan kau rasa sekarang ni, cuma datang sekali saja. Rugilah kita kalo tak sambut seruan Allah ni. ="(
Kawan B : Aku pun rasa camtu gak. Tapi, aku tak tau nak start camne.
Kawan A : Apa kata kita start dengan stop pakai baju tangan pendek, seluar ketat.. Then, kita cuba pakai tudung yang tak jarang and menutup dada. Pastu kita biasakan diri dengan pakai stokin pulak. Amacam??
Kawan B : Okey jugak cadangan kau tu.. Aku setuju. InsyaAllah. Mudah-mudahan kita mampu berubah menjadi yang lebih elok. Amin.
Kawan A : (Tersenyum) InsyaAllah. Kalo kita tolong agama Allah, Allah akan tolong kita.. Amin. Permudahkanlah kami Ya Allah.. Jangan sampai kami tak berubah kerana mencari redha manusia.
P/s : Kepada yang ada terdetik di hati untuk lebih menjaga diri dan menutup aurat selengkapnya, lakukanlah perubahan tersebut. Ingat. bukan redha manusia yang kita cari. Bukan manusia tu yang akan bagi kita masuk syurga atau neraka.
Tabahkan hati. Mohon lah pada Ilahi. InsyaAllah, Allah Maha Mengetahui. Sapa yang betol-betol berkeinginan, InsyaAllah Allah akan tolong. Percayalah.. moga Allah redha.
"perempuan yang memelihara auratnya memang awesomeee !"
sy tegur anda kerna saya sayang anda, anda saudara saya. saya mahu kita semua masuk ke syurgaNya yang mengalir di bawahnya sungai - sungai yang mendamaikan jiwa. ^^
-Neo-
sumber : http://
P/s :-
Post nie bkn dr aku...aku skadar copy paste.
Credits to the original (sape yg create nie).
Credits gak kpd yg bg aku share...
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=254583311282810&set=a.136511286423347.34529.136480249759784&type=3
(original copied from link)
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
My HTC Sensation! ^_^
Hey guys n girls...
*sigh* haa~ its been so long since I last updated my blog...well, needed to find time to do it though...and now the time has come. =D
Anyways...this post is all about my phone...the HTC SENSATION. Its not a new phone but it is a very good model from HTC. Not many own an HTC smartphone...I don't know why...but I like HTC models. =)
Here's a basic pic of how the phone looks like just in case u guys dont recognize it...
HTC Sensation Original / 4G / Z710e
HTC Sensation XE
HTC Sensation XL
There are slight difference from all the 3 Sensation models above....but I'm not going into that. Since there are already so many different blogs, entries, and whatsoever on this 3 models.
Moving on....
What I am going to talk about is the all new Ice Cream Sandwich (ICS) or Android 4.0 from Google.
The android 4.0 is the latest Android version. It is still not in its final release if my knowledge serves me right. Pls correct me if I'm worng... Whats the difference? Well it just basically means that the 4.0 version of android is better than the ones before. But it all depends on the user. But as far as my experience with the ICS...I am liking it. ^_^
Lets start things off with my homescreen and lockscreen...here's how it looks...
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The 1st picture is the lockscreen and on the 2nd is my homescreen.
If u notice...the ring in the lockscreen is no longer bind to the plain stock silver metallic lockring by HTC.
For now, I dont know wether there are custom lockrings or not but mine came with the custom skin by jerrytan93.
I like the cool glowing lockring effect... ^_^
Here's a link to where I got it...just in case for those of u who want it....or not..
http://forum.xda-developers.com/showthread.php?t=1446649
AGAIN! CREDITS TO JERRYTAN93 for the cool skin... ^_^
Don't forget to hit the >>>>>> THANKS <<<<<<<< button...
Next we go to the notification...and the quick sttings.
And yet again...the settings have been modified to being simpler than what it used to be...although... I was kinda wondering...before the ICS, my total memory was around 768MB bu now its gone down to 583MB. I dunno wether its a bug or something but...it does kinda make me wonder. But so far, no system hang...I have quite a few heavy games in my phone running this ICS and surprisingly there are no hangs or FCs for that matter. Oh, btw... FC stands for Force Close for those of u who arent familiar with these terms.
Although, I still kinda like the extended quick settings which in my opinion really made it quick for me to access certain settings without going in too deep into the settings.
Just for ure information, the WiFi connection can be pressed either at the wifi icon or at the place written "Disconnected". By clicking those places, u will be brought to the wifi section of the phone.
Again the same thing with the additional settings. U may click at the icon to the right to enter settings straight away. Everything works just fine for a Beta version. The bluetooth works fine, wifi n hotspot works fine, and as u all can see I am on mobile network and it works fine too. If u notice, the "Save Power" seems to be dimmed and that is because I am charging the phone. Although, if u enable this...ure phone will go into a mode where it is in a state of sleep n awake hybrid. What I mean is that ure phone is at a state as if it is running low on battery. So, just be sure not to enable this if u have ample of battery life. =)
This is the application drawer...
It is the stock drawer and this is not the Rossie verion. The rossie version gives u a semi-transparent background in ure drawer and it is a 5x5 grid. As u can see, mine is a 4x5 drawer. Its all up to u wether to install the rossie version or not. I prefer not to. Coz 5x5 seems too messy for me...I dun mind scrolling more than having it look messy.
Here is a preview of what is 'under the hood'... XD
Well...what more can I say...see for ureself. Take note that my Sensation is the original. So, it is supposed to run at 1.2Ghz. But since I am using the Sensation XE's kernel...dat is why I am getting the 1.5Ghz. It is supperbly fast.
Another note to be taken here is the HTC Sense version. According to HTC, there is going to be a release of HTC Sense 4.0 which claiming to be the official Sense for the ICS. According to trusted sources...the Sense 4.0 is much more better. So, I will be waiting for it and hope to get the ICS final release altogether. ^_^
Last but not least...the music and camera... =D
Now as u can see....the music interface has also gotten a new facelift from the previous version. The camera interface also has a new facelift. And the pictures are still in satisfaction... =)
Oh...btw...I do have the Beats Audio enabled on my phone. ^_~
The picture in the image shown may seem kinda blurry...but dats coz I was in a hurry to capture it...coz I have class tomorrow...so need to sleep early... XD
Well, that wraps it up for now...Its not much that I can show...these are only bits and pieces on whats new. There are others but...I think I'll let u guys discover those on ure own... ^_^ (provided that u have an HTC Sensation).
Anyways....see u guys next time...
Credits to jerrytan93 for the skin.
Credits to V6_maniac for the Sense-O-Maniac ROM.
Credits to XDA-Developers for all the help I got.
-Neo
*sigh* haa~ its been so long since I last updated my blog...well, needed to find time to do it though...and now the time has come. =D
Anyways...this post is all about my phone...the HTC SENSATION. Its not a new phone but it is a very good model from HTC. Not many own an HTC smartphone...I don't know why...but I like HTC models. =)
Here's a basic pic of how the phone looks like just in case u guys dont recognize it...
HTC Sensation Original / 4G / Z710e
HTC Sensation XE
HTC Sensation XL
There are slight difference from all the 3 Sensation models above....but I'm not going into that. Since there are already so many different blogs, entries, and whatsoever on this 3 models.
Moving on....
What I am going to talk about is the all new Ice Cream Sandwich (ICS) or Android 4.0 from Google.
The android 4.0 is the latest Android version. It is still not in its final release if my knowledge serves me right. Pls correct me if I'm worng... Whats the difference? Well it just basically means that the 4.0 version of android is better than the ones before. But it all depends on the user. But as far as my experience with the ICS...I am liking it. ^_^
Lets start things off with my homescreen and lockscreen...here's how it looks...
The 1st picture is the lockscreen and on the 2nd is my homescreen.
If u notice...the ring in the lockscreen is no longer bind to the plain stock silver metallic lockring by HTC.
For now, I dont know wether there are custom lockrings or not but mine came with the custom skin by jerrytan93.
I like the cool glowing lockring effect... ^_^
Here's a link to where I got it...just in case for those of u who want it....or not..
http://forum.xda-developers.com/showthread.php?t=1446649
AGAIN! CREDITS TO JERRYTAN93 for the cool skin... ^_^
Don't forget to hit the >>>>>> THANKS <<<<<<<< button...
Next we go to the notification...and the quick sttings.
And yet again...the settings have been modified to being simpler than what it used to be...although... I was kinda wondering...before the ICS, my total memory was around 768MB bu now its gone down to 583MB. I dunno wether its a bug or something but...it does kinda make me wonder. But so far, no system hang...I have quite a few heavy games in my phone running this ICS and surprisingly there are no hangs or FCs for that matter. Oh, btw... FC stands for Force Close for those of u who arent familiar with these terms.
Although, I still kinda like the extended quick settings which in my opinion really made it quick for me to access certain settings without going in too deep into the settings.
Just for ure information, the WiFi connection can be pressed either at the wifi icon or at the place written "Disconnected". By clicking those places, u will be brought to the wifi section of the phone.
Again the same thing with the additional settings. U may click at the icon to the right to enter settings straight away. Everything works just fine for a Beta version. The bluetooth works fine, wifi n hotspot works fine, and as u all can see I am on mobile network and it works fine too. If u notice, the "Save Power" seems to be dimmed and that is because I am charging the phone. Although, if u enable this...ure phone will go into a mode where it is in a state of sleep n awake hybrid. What I mean is that ure phone is at a state as if it is running low on battery. So, just be sure not to enable this if u have ample of battery life. =)
This is the application drawer...
It is the stock drawer and this is not the Rossie verion. The rossie version gives u a semi-transparent background in ure drawer and it is a 5x5 grid. As u can see, mine is a 4x5 drawer. Its all up to u wether to install the rossie version or not. I prefer not to. Coz 5x5 seems too messy for me...I dun mind scrolling more than having it look messy.
Here is a preview of what is 'under the hood'... XD
Well...what more can I say...see for ureself. Take note that my Sensation is the original. So, it is supposed to run at 1.2Ghz. But since I am using the Sensation XE's kernel...dat is why I am getting the 1.5Ghz. It is supperbly fast.
Another note to be taken here is the HTC Sense version. According to HTC, there is going to be a release of HTC Sense 4.0 which claiming to be the official Sense for the ICS. According to trusted sources...the Sense 4.0 is much more better. So, I will be waiting for it and hope to get the ICS final release altogether. ^_^
Last but not least...the music and camera... =D
Now as u can see....the music interface has also gotten a new facelift from the previous version. The camera interface also has a new facelift. And the pictures are still in satisfaction... =)
Oh...btw...I do have the Beats Audio enabled on my phone. ^_~
The picture in the image shown may seem kinda blurry...but dats coz I was in a hurry to capture it...coz I have class tomorrow...so need to sleep early... XD
Well, that wraps it up for now...Its not much that I can show...these are only bits and pieces on whats new. There are others but...I think I'll let u guys discover those on ure own... ^_^ (provided that u have an HTC Sensation).
Anyways....see u guys next time...
Credits to jerrytan93 for the skin.
Credits to V6_maniac for the Sense-O-Maniac ROM.
Credits to XDA-Developers for all the help I got.
-Neo
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